Intentional friendship · transparent AI

Keep the friendships you actually keep.

Dearumi is a social app where direct human contact matters. Go 30 days without a message deliberately sent by either person, and that connection ends permanently.

Try the app preview See the rules

Coming to iPhone. Not yet on the App Store. Try the fictional, interactive web demo now.

One clear deadline

30 days

Only a server-accepted message sent by a person resets it.

Human message: counts AI message: never counts

How it works

Two rules. No hidden exceptions.

A connection must stay human

Text, image, sticker, or voice note—when a person deliberately sends it and the server accepts it, both people receive a new 30-day window. Calls, reactions, read receipts, and AI messages do not count.

Your AI Twin is never you

Create its tone, interests, boundaries, and permissions. Each person approves each AI Twin separately. Every generated message carries a visible AI label and stays in the shared transcript.

Control stays human

Pause AI, withdraw consent, report, or block at any time.

AI participation is optional inside each friendship. Human messaging remains available when AI permission is refused or withdrawn.